The notification bell chimed and I froze — a Valentine’s event had just landed in BitLife and it promised trouble. Your relationship bar crawls toward chaos, and suddenly every choice feels charged. The feed snaps like a cord pulled tight.
I’ve played these challenges enough to know where they tangle you up. You’ll get blunt, practical steps here — I’ll point out the traps, the shortcuts, and the one weird timing trick that saves you hours. Read this on a phone or tablet (Google Play, Apple App Store; developer Candywriter is the one shipping these seasonal events) and follow the moves in the order I lay out.
At dinner parties people trade BitLife war stories out loud. Here’s the map through the Valentine’s challenge.
There are five tasks. The chain reads like a soap opera stitched to a spreadsheet, and that’s your advantage — the missions are sequential, so you can plan moves now and execute later.
- Cheat on a lover.
- Call off an engagement.
- Marry someone within a year of knowing them.
- Celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary.
- Renew your vows.
On late-night apps you see risky choices flourish. How to trigger the cheat on a lover goal.
If you don’t already have an active relationship, start one. You must be “in a relationship” for the game to register cheating. Then find someone else — use the Relationships tab to pick someone you already know, or go through Love, Clubs, or Co-workers to meet a fresh prospect.
How do you cheat on a lover in BitLife?
Pick the target, open their profile, and select a romantic interaction: a booty call, a one-night stand, or similar. That choice flags the action as cheating and ticks the box for this task. If you want fewer complications, choose a character with low attachment so fallout is easier to contain.
I once watched a player cancel a ring two minutes after proposing. Here’s how to call off an engagement without guessing.
Get engaged first: you can propose or wait to be proposed to. If you cheated earlier and the relationship is strained, you can still propose to a new partner.
Open Relationships, select your fiancée, and hit Cancel Engagement. That action completes the challenge step instantly.
At office parties people meet and marry fast; the game mimics that. How to marry someone within a year of meeting them.
Find a fresh partner and move quickly: meet, date, get engaged, then marry — all within the same year. Don’t age up between meeting and marriage; if you do, the mission resets and you’ll need to start over.
How do you marry someone within a year of knowing them in BitLife?
Seal the timeline: meet in year X, propose and accept in year X, and marry before the year turns. Keep relationship bars healthy with dates and compliments so the partner will say yes when you push to propose.
At retirement parties couples trade anniversary stories like trophies. How to reach a 50th wedding anniversary in BitLife.
This is patience and probability. Marry early if you can, avoid risky behavior, boost health, and keep your spouse happy. The task simply requires you and your spouse to survive for 50 years after marriage.
How do you celebrate your 50th wedding anniversary in BitLife?
There’s no special event you must trigger beyond being alive and married 50 years post-wedding. Stay married, buy health upgrades when possible, and keep the relationship positive so neither spouse divorces or dies early.
I’ve seen nostalgic couples schedule vow ceremonies in-game as a flex. Where to find the Renew Vows option.
Open Relationships, select your spouse, scroll toward the bottom of their card and you’ll find Renew Vows. If the option is greyed out, rebuild rapport first with dates, compliments, and gifts.
Finish sequence tip: do the cheating and calling-off steps first, then set up the quick marriage — that clears the way for anniversary and vow steps without conflicting timers. Save before big moves when you can; app crashes or awkward RNG can cost you months of play.
If you want more missions after this, try other BitLife challenges: Crazy Ex, Gatsby, or material goals like buying a Lamborghini.
Ready to stir up a little digital romance and see which of your choices haunts you later?