The waiting room is fluorescent and too quiet. I tapped my phone and realized the weekly challenge wasn’t gentle: it wanted chaos. You can play a saint or push the game into a petty spiral—this one rewards the spiral.
I’ve chased weekly BitLife trials enough to waste time and learn the shortcuts. I’ll walk you through each objective, show the menu clicks that matter, and point out a few tactical choices—no hand-holding, just the routes that get you to the finish line faster.
BitLife Manic Mother challenge walkthrough
People on Reddit post screenshots of completed trials like badges of honor.
The Manic Mother trial has five clear goals. They read bluntly, so plan for record-keeping: you want ten different fathers, insults and abandonments for every child, a husband who already has at least two kids, and then insults for every stepchild. Below is the quick checklist and then the how-to for each task.
- Have 10+ baby daddies.
- Insult each of your children.
- Abandon each of your children.
- Marry a man with 2+ children.
- Insult each of your stepchildren.
Have 10+ baby daddies in BitLife
Scroll through the Dating options and you’ll see profiles flash by—some with kids, some without.
Make a female character and age until you can pursue relationships. Open Activities > Love > Hook Up. When the protection prompt appears, select No to maximize pregnancy chances. Repeat with different partners until you hit ten unique fathers. Keep a mental tally—this objective wants different dads, not ten kids from one quick rebound.
Gathering baby daddies becomes a trading-card hunt, so treat each date like a new pull from the pack.
How do you get 10 baby daddies in BitLife?
Use Hook Ups, refuse protection, and cycle through different characters. If you’re on an emulator such as BlueStacks you can speed up clicks; Candywriter’s game logic is the same whether on iOS, Android, or an emulator.
Insult each of your children in BitLife
Forums are full of players who miss a single kid and have to replay years to fix objectives.
Open Relationships, find Children, pick one child and tap Insult. Repeat for every child you have. The challenge checks every slot, so if you accidentally spawn extra kids, insult those too. Track names on a notepad or screenshot the list to avoid missing one.
Each insult is a match striking a dry forest—quick, irreversible, and attention-grabbing.
Can you insult stepchildren separately from your children?
Yes. Once you marry someone who has kids, those children appear as stepchildren in your Children list under Relationships and can be insulted just like your biological kids.
Abandon each of your children in BitLife
I’ve seen players hesitate because abandonment feels final—even in a game.
Again, go to Relationships > Children. For each child, choose Abandon. This is separate from insulting, so you’ll need to perform both actions on every child to clear those two objectives. If a child is a minor, the option will appear; do them in whatever order is safest for your save file—insulting first or abandoning first both work, but don’t miss any.
Marry a man with 2+ children in BitLife
Dating screens list the essentials—age, job, and sometimes kids—so read the whole profile.
Use Activities > Love > Date. When a potential partner’s profile appears, check the final line for the number of children. Only pursue candidates who already have two or more kids. Build relationship actions—dates, gifts, compliments—until marriage is available. Marrying him adds his children to your list as stepchildren, which leads into the final goal.
Insult each of your stepchildren in BitLife
When you marry someone with kids, their family instantly appears in the same Children section you’ve been using.
Head to Relationships > Children and engage each stepchild with the Insult option. Repeat until every listed stepchild has been insulted. That completes the final objective and finishes the challenge.
How do you abandon a child in BitLife?
Find the child under Relationships > Children and select Abandon. If you’re short on time, use quick-age to pass years faster on Android or iOS; the logic is identical on every platform, and players sometimes use emulators like BlueStacks to streamline repeated runs.
If you want another short thrill after this, check the vault for the Mother’s Day challenge, Real Housewife, Attack Titan, or Kahlo My World—they’re all a few clicks away and punish different playstyles.
Ready to be the worst mom in BitLife and see how the game—and the comment section—reacts?