The first husband died at 3:14 a.m., and my thumb was still on the screen from tapping Make Love. The notification read like a verdict: six murders to finish, one of them by elephant laxative. I sat there, a little giddy and a little nervous—this is the kind of challenge that rewrites how you play.
Weekly game chatter is loud around new BitLife challenges. The Rainbow Widower is short on goals but long on headaches.
I’ll walk you through the clean path and the risky shortcuts so you waste fewer tries. You only need to complete three objectives to clear it, but two of them require patience and a little luck.
- Be born male in Florida.
- Kill 6+ husbands after making love to them.
- Kill at least one husband with elephant laxative.
You can change your starting life faster than you think at the character screen. Pick Florida and male, then commit.
Create a new life if your current save doesn’t match the gender and birthplace conditions—that’s normal for weekly trials. Choose any Florida city (Miami, Orlando, Tampa all count). Keep things simple: no need to manipulate traits at birth.
On mobile? BitLife by Candywriter is available via the App Store and Google Play; many players test builds on BlueStacks or Steam when they want a larger screen. You don’t need a paid subscription to get started—this is a playthrough you can finish with a free account.
Forums are full of horror stories where one failed murder ends a run. Treat each attempt like an experiment.
To score six husbands killed after intimacy you’ll repeat the same loop: find a male partner, nurture the relationship, marry, use Make Love, then kill.
Start by courting men openly: talk, spend time, buy gifts. When the relationship hits the “marry” threshold, propose. After marriage, open the Relationships tab, select your spouse under Love, choose Make Love, then go to Activities > Crime > Murder. Pick your husband from the dropdown and choose your method.
Repeat that sequence until you hit six successful kills. Success is probabilistic; sometimes you escape scot-free, other times you get caught or killed. When a murder attempt fails, force-quit the app and reopen—it often resets the failed action without costing you a full life. If that doesn’t help, reload an earlier save and try a different method.
Can you kill your spouse in BitLife?
Yes. BitLife allows player-driven spousal murder via the Crime menu. You must be the one to attempt the murder for it to count toward this challenge; hiring a hitman will not satisfy the requirement.
How do you get elephant laxative in BitLife?
Elephant laxative appears as one of the selectable murder methods in the Murder dropdown. It’s an uncommon option in the list—select it when you pick your method. Success is not guaranteed; it behaves like the other exotic methods and leans on RNG.
I’ve watched streamers sit for an hour trying elephant laxative and laugh at the absurdity. It’s comedy and risk in equal measure.
For the elephant laxative goal you must personally kill at least one husband using that exact method. Select it from the Murder method dropdown on the murder screen. Because success is random, treat the laxative attempt as a targeted gamble—do it once to check the box rather than repeating it across all six husbands.
If you want a safer path, save right before the murder attempt. If the method fails and you end up jailed or dead, reload and try again; that save is your insurance policy. Remember: hiring a hitman to deploy the laxative won’t count.
Daily streams and Reddit threads make strategy feel communal. Use those resources, but craft your own flow.
I recommend this sequence: start as a Florida-born male, marry quickly, save before each murder attempt, use reliable methods for five kills, then attempt the elephant laxative once with its own save. Think of the run like a gamble at a roulette table—each spin matters but you can pick your moments.
If you want to watch others, search Twitch and YouTube for BitLife challenge streams; Candywriter’s updates and Moyens I/O posts help track weekly trial rotations. Try BlueStacks on PC if you prefer keyboard control; the mechanics are identical to mobile.
Finished the run? Head back to the challenge vault and try other trials like Manic Mother, Real Housewife, Attack Titan, or Kahlo My World. This one plays like chess on a spinning board—are you brave enough to call your next move and risk everything for the badge?